Monday, May 25, 2009

new dating paradigm

Dating when you're an 'adult' sucks. You're busy, you don't want to stay up too late because you have to work the next day and you don't want to get too wasted either (because it really sucks when you're older to be hungover at work). This eliminates the whole 'let's get drunk and make out and get it over with' possibility. Which encapsulates my current quandry. We've been on four dates and not even had an open mouth kiss. I think it's time for some type of drunk date. And I have to mastermind it, because he's just so goddamn nice. I'm not complaining, we're going nice and slow, but if we don't switch it into second gear soon, I'm afraid we might stall.

So, I have two options. 1. Call him on Friday when i'm already tipsy and convince him to come down and meet me and join in the debauch or, 2. Straight up tell him that our next date has to involve getting drunk and making out (or just making out).

I swear to god, when I was younger I could've never imagined that dating be so much work. Thinking up ideas, working around two busy schedules is really challenging. But, fingers crossed, things will get easier once we put it in second gear.....now I just have to figure out how to get there....

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